As
youth,we are building relationship we hope will last
long
through thick and thin.Without necessarily having
sex or
engaging in unholy acts,there are various ways of
conveying
love messages.Let us look at ten of them:
1) Caring:
You care for the ones you love. A good way to show
that is by
asking after the person,is/her friends family,
business,academics
and things that matters to him/her.
Some of
these questions should help: Have you today?
What did
you eat?
Did the
food satisfy you? Do you wan some more?
How is
your family? Your voice sounds so low,dear,
are you
okay? What of your cousin that traveled last
month,is
he back? Did your brother pass the interview?
Have you
read your bible today? Have you read your books
today?
Etc.
You show
how much you care by buying gift and taking your
love ones
out to see exciting places. you can also drop a
note for
him or her. In this modern era,it is text messages.
2) Sharing
secret:Trust goes with love. When you don't love
someone,there
is no way you would want to divulge confidential
information
to him/her. So you can spike your love life up by
sharing
your secrets.Things you don't tell your mother or
siblings,you
can tell your fiance/fiancee or even your best
friend
because you trust her/him,as this can go a long way
to tell
the listener that you trust her and she in turn will
tell you
her own.This creates bonding between you two.
But! You
need to be careful the kind of confidential matter
you let
out and be mindful of the attitude of the person you
you are
sharing with; some people are very flippant.So,start
with
little secrets and less confidential ones,just to test.
3) The way
you speak: the tone of your voice and your expressions
are quite
important while speaking with your loved ones.
use
endearing words like sweetheart,my love,my heart,sugar,
honey,my
Angel,my Hero,Baby,cutie pie,Darling,Gorgeous etc
when
referring directly to Him/Her.This shows how much you
care and
cherish him/her.
4) Don't
Shout:Never yell or shout at your at your loved one.
Even when
you are angry,learn to keep cool.when arguing over
an
issue,please avoid name-calling like stupid man,useless woman,
imbecile,etc
some of these words stick and are not easily forgotten.
5) Praying
for the ones you love:Always pray for the ones you love
and also
for relationship.
Any
relationship that is not built in God is doomed for failure.The
two of you
should go to church together and commit your healthy
relationship
into the hand of God.
Praying
means standing in the gap, so whenever a friend is facing
serious
challenges and you bring out quality time to convey the message
to God by
fasting and praying,it shows that you truly care.
6) Sharing
moments:Heart to heart discussions strengthen relationship
more than
sex will do. You two,can sit in one cool,healthy corner and
talk.Talk
about your likes and dislikesss.Talk about your futures.
Tell
him/her freely how you feel about him/her.Talk about your challanges.
Talk about
healthy issues,make it fun by chiping in funny words to savour
the
moment. When the two of you are in a room together alone,it is advice
able not
be watch pornographic movies,as that we stir up the devils in you.
Believe
me,if you engage in a healthy discussion or a healthy movie,there
is no way
sex or bad romance will follow.
7) Holding
Hands: When walking together,you can hold hands.It should be
natural.Boy,you
know people do sign language with their hands, so you too
can send
message with your hands.
8) Gentle
kiss: Warning! I mean kissing the healthy way. A peck on the cheek
that's
all.Even when you feel like kissing the other way,try to restrian
yourself,is
not for the children of God who are not yet married,as that can
lead to a
lot of things like touching,necking and even sex.
9)
Smiles:Such a nice smiles. "Is that smile just for me because i have not
seen you
smile that way?" I can feel that you are smiling.I like the way you
smile.It
was your smile that caught my attention,how i wish you will be
smiling
always.
Smiling
has a magical attraction. When you smile at someone,he/she feels warm
and
accepted around you.
10)
Hugging: At times you hug.Assuming you have not seen each other for a long
time,you
can hug when you eventually see. There is power in touching.I don't
mean tight
and romantic ones.I mean warm embrace.
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